Chances are scolding your daughter frequently is going to drive them mad in the meantime, however, in the long-term, it is going to help your daughter and you as well, without a doubt. A recent study in the United Kingdom said that idealistic outlooks go hand in hand with having a successful young woman. It is said that if a young lady has a nagging mother who continues to put her nose in her daughters business, she is more likely to be successful in the long run.
Excessive scolding produces fewer failures.
University of Essex research indicates mothers demand a lot out of their little girls, perhaps even more than society expects. Because their mother has higher expectations for their daughters, they are more likely to avoid the little failures that could cause anybody to trip on their way to the top of the success ladder. Teen pregnancy is one topic that comes up and slows some young ladies down from being successful as quickly as possible. Settling for low-wages, not working in general, and even abandon school also temp young ladies. However, if these young ladies have a mother who is constantly scolding them, they are less likely to fall into these setbacks.
Bitterness means you are doing a good job at parenting.
The results are going to be bitter at first, but then they will be bittersweet. There will be a lot of slammed doors, eye rolls, and tantrums in between. However, you have to remember it means you are doing a good job. You can always go a different route if you would like, however, as you can tell, the scolding and nagging method is most effective for teenage girls. Teenagers (especially girls) will often try to rebel against whatever their parents recommend, however, in the end, those nagging sessions will rest in their sub-conscious, and later they will succeed in what is familiar to their consciousness.
You have to scold unrelentingly and not give up or give in.
Yes, there are a lot of other ways you can go. Philosophically and ethically is this the best approach? Maybe not. The fact of the matter is, if you only nag about two things, your daughter will accomplish one or the other. For instance, if you tell your daughter you want her to graduate high school, and you don’t want her to be a teen mom, because of the energy you have already installed with those sentences, you will get a result of one or the other. Your best bet is to scold and lecture your daughter about a lot of things at once. We want our daughters to know that they have options and they can make their own decisions. If your daughter decides not to be a teen mom because they don’t want to hear their mother scold them more, then so be it. It’s really a win-win situation.
Let us not forget about the young males out there. This same method and approach can be used for them as well. They don’t like being scolded and nagged either. However, they will thank you for it later. Don’t let them get away with things either. We are raising the next generation. We are raising the future.